朋友的禁忌

                                                                                                                                                

 朋友的禁忌:                                                                                                                                         

                                                                                                                                                      

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 別以為你跟你的朋友..是那種你的東西就是我的..而我的東西是你的!!                                                                                      

 告訴你:錯啦~~~東西絕對要分清楚..不然到最後….東西壞了..想要讓對方賠..又覺得不好意思..所以自認倒霉..但卻因此在心中會自然形成一種排斥感唷!             

              
                                                                                                                                        

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 別以為你跟你的朋友…好到是不論到哪…就有人會開車或是請客..                                                                                            

 告訴你:錯啦~~~~~偶爾1.2次..或許受得了…時間一久了~~換成誰都受不了…所以出門玩之前..最好先講好..油錢大家分攤..花費大家先繳錢玩後在清點退還…..這樣不僅大

 家玩的快樂…也可以更增加朋友間的感覺…                                                                                                                 

                                                                                                                                                     

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 別以為你跟你的朋友…熟到那種連他們的廚房.房間.你都可以自由出入…                                                                                      

 告訴你:錯啦~~~~越是好的朋友..越是要彼此尊重…因為畢竟不是自己的家…你憑什麼自由進出別人的地盤咧?那種行為只會讓人覺得你不尊重對方…否則的話!!竟可能避免…

 別以為那沒什麼..對方可以早在心裡把你罵到爛透啦!!!!                                                                                                   

                                                                                                                                                     

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 別以為你跟你的朋友…感情很好了…所以一切都可以比較隨和..就算去到對方家…不用去在乎那些禮節                                                             

 告訴你:錯啦~~~~越是好的朋友..禮節越是不能少..今天去拜訪他家~~~絕對絕對不可兩串蕉去唷!!!一定要帶點”單漏”就是所謂的禮物…哪怕是一袋水果…所謂禮輕情意重 

 ㄚ~也就是這種道理...又所謂的禮多人不怪ㄚ!!!所以千萬別帶兩串蕉ㄚ!!切記~~                                                                              

                                                                                                                                                     

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 別以為你跟你的朋友…..可以到好的連上個廁所都可以形影不離啦~~                                                                                         

 告訴你:錯啦~~~~偶爾給對方自己一點空間…讓彼此去看看身邊的人.事.物,回頭來..彼此的視野會更開闊的!!!就好比你跟他每天生活在以一起….換句難聽的~~那跟坐牢有

 什麼差別咧???再怎麼看..就只有我看你..你看我…哈~~大眼瞪小眼..有天總會變成豆雞眼的啦!!!!!!!!給自己及對方有更大的空間…會讓彼此成長的速度更快!!         

                                                                                                                                                     

 6. 別以為你跟你的朋友….是那種可以互相模仿喜歡的東西..                                                                                                

 告訴你:錯啦~~~每個人的審美觀不同.模仿久了~~只會讓對方倒盡味口…因為朋友他會欣賞你自己喜歡的東西…..而不是模仿你學你喜歡的東西….也因為你跟自己有所不   

 同..他才會覺得新鮮ㄚ~~否則你喜歡的跟他喜歡的都一樣..那就乾脆自己跟自己當朋友就好啦!!幹嘛還找一個人來配合呢?所以囉~~要學會懂的去喜歡欣賞對方的喜好...

 而不是學習!!!                                                                                                                                        

                                                                                                                                                      

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 別以為你跟你的朋友….是那種有難就可以離家出走逃到他家….                                                                                              

 告訴你:錯啦~~~~~或許他可以幫你一陣子…但是相同的他也必要負責起你在他身旁的責任…久了…我想換成任何一個人都或覺得,我幹嘛!!交個朋友來自找麻煩咧~也會在心 

 中產生一種厭惡感的!!所以囉~~~越是好的朋友你更要學會去體會他的心情及他的難處的!!自己的難處自己擔….千萬不要去長久麻煩別人!!!人家說久病無孝子...其實也 

 可以改成久煩無知已.......共勉之.....                                                                                                                

                                                                                                                                                      

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 別以為你跟你的朋友……是那種是那種常常可以膩在一起....就覺得彼此感情很好….                                                                            

 告訴你:錯啦~~~~~越是好的朋友….在一起固然會讓你忘記煩惱…但是別忘了~~還是要常常充實自己…讓自己給對方的感覺永遠是那種新鮮的~~否則就像叫你天天都吃一樣的

 菜….你不會吃到想吐嗎??呵~~~充實自己是吸引朋友最大的主因唷!!!                                                                                         

                                                                                                                                                     

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 別以為你跟你的朋友…天天都可以聊很久很久...不見面就覺得難受的...                                                                                     

 告訴你:錯啦~~~~~~~真正的朋友是會在你特別的節日.或生日時....都會打通電話問候你的人….不會因為不常聯絡就忘記你的存在的!!!!朋友不會因為時間的距離而有所 

 改變的                                                                                                                                               

                                                                                                                                                     

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 別以為你跟你的朋友..是那種可以全權都託付他的人..都希望他能幫你決定自己的事.                                                                         

 告訴你:錯啦~~~~~~如果你常給對方這種期許…那只會讓對方有成就感一陣子..久了受不了啦~~~因為他在替你下決定時…他要承擔那決定後的後果…那種壓力…其實比自己替

 自己下決定…來的更大的!!所以囉~~~~好朋友是在你自己下完決定後…或在下決定時…從旁給你建議的~~而不是去決定你該怎麼做的!!                                 

                                                                                                                                                     

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 別以為你跟你朋友……遇到缺錢時就自動會幫助你的.....                                                                                                   

 告訴你:錯啦~~~人家親兄弟都要明算帳啦!!!!!!!何況你是個外人~~所以更要清清楚楚的算清楚ㄚ~~~欠人的就該快還…別以為沒什麼借據就可以慢慢拖….要想想看對方是 

 因為相信你才會借你的!難道你要自己破壞信用嗎?在現實中…其實講到錢就會傷感情…這是不可否認的!!!所以囉~~越是好的朋友…錢財可不要弄的不清不楚ㄚ~~這可是最大

 最大.....的禁忌ㄚ~~~~~~                                                                                                                              

                                                                                                                                                     

                                                                                                                                                      

 朋友可以一輩子…也可以因為一點小事磨擦而成了仇人…從小地方做起…越是看起來                                                                             

                                                                                                                                                      

                                                                                                                                                     

 不重要的小細節….越是會影響之間的友情…..好好看看自己哪邊沒做到唷!!!!別因為這                                                                          

                                                                                                                                                     

                                                                                                                                                      

 一些小地方….而讓你損失了一個好朋友唷!!!朋友在你的人生中...它是一種事業~~~~需                                                                        

                                                                                                                                                      

                                                                                                                                                     

 要用心去慢慢去經營的唷!!!記得唷!!!!!